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11月5日

How to be a good boyfriend

It's hard enough learning how to be a good boyfriend, but when you're a teen it's even more difficult because your hormones are raging and you don't have much practice.

 

Steps

  1. Girls do not like guys who constantly lie to impress them. Tell the truth and you'll never have to worry about getting caught in a lie.
  2. Be protective, but not to the point of being overprotective.
  3. Make an effort to get along with her friends. Do not make it seem like your flirting with them. Your girlfriend could easily be hurt by this.
  4. Respect that some of her friends are guys. If she says they're only friends, believe her unless you have a real reason not to.
  5. Make sure you treat her well in front of your friends. Don't ignore her. Respect the fact that girls need to hang out with their girl-friends. Don't be jealous.
  6. Answer her phone calls...and don't complain that she woke you up.
  7. Compliment her often so that she knows that you're still interested in her. It will make her feel secure.
  8. Tell her she looks beautiful when she's made an effort. Tell her she's beautiful when she hasn't.
  9. Make sure she's always smiling. Make her happy when she's sad...but let her be sad if she needs to be.
  10. Don't try to make her jealous, or suggest that she is jealous. It will get you dumped.
  11. Don't be overly competitive with her. Girls like to think they're right.
  12. Buy her flowers. But respect the fact that she won't carry them around all day. Not just any flowers. Make an effort to know her favorites.
  13. Be romantic, but not cliche.
  14. Don't get into fights. Girls won't see you as a protector, they will see you as an aggressor.
  15. Don't tell her you think other girls are hot, even if she brings it up.
  16. Let her play with your hair - even if she's messing it up.
  17. Don't be jealous about her exes. She's with you, not with them. Never talk about how great your ex was. Unless you're saying that she's even better. and even then, you're on thin ice.
  18. Don't embarrass her. EVER.
  19. Don't pressure her.
  1. Don't tease her about her outfits - she's probably self-conscious enough already.
  2. Never call her fat - even if she's obese. Tell her you love her woman curves.
  3. Don't tell her to get off your lap. Let your leg fall asleep. You can ask her to move her weight to the other leg.
  4. Listen to her music even if it's rubbish and you can't stand it.
  5. Listen to her even if the topic is boring.
  6. Think before you say anything and don't do anything you'll regret.
  7. Don't let your friends pick on her. Stick up for her, even if they are only kidding!
  8. "No" always means no. even when you think it doesn't.
  9. Don't ask for money from her or let her pay for lunch. Remember to be a gentleman.
  10. Try to do something you both love to do, so that relationships don't seem a drag to you.
  11. Tell her you've been thinking about her all day.
  12. Kiss her on the forehead and on top of her head, especially when she is feeling down, and always say a simple 'I love you'. It will make her happy.

 

Tips

  • Don't EVER tell her that you love her unless you mean it all the way with all your heart.
  • Be yourself, she will find out who you really are at some point anyway
  • Treat her the same way you would want to be treated
  • Protect her
  • Tell her that you will never "let her go"
  • When she's mad, stay calm
  • If she bumps into your hand a lot, hold her hand
  • Some girls like to be called beautiful and some like to be called hot, know which one your girl likes. If you don't, gorgeous is an okay choice in most situations.
  • When she is sad, go out of your way to cheer her up
  • Give her your jacket if she's cold, or even better, hold her close so she doesn't feel bad for taking yours.
  • Call her sweet names when you see she's feeling down.
  • Make sure you always ALWAYS make time for her.
  • Let her know she comes first.
  • Make up silly jokes with her. Be totally honest.
  • Tell her embarrassing things that have happened to you. Open up. If it's love she won't dump you for it.
  • Be true to her, and if an ex is brought up, tell her you don't want anything to do with your ex, and that she's the only girl for you.
  • If someone whistles at her, or gives her the eye, don't say "I'm going to go beat them up." Simply say, "Hey, I don't blame 'em." And let it go. Just don't let things get out of hand.
  • During a first date they might want a first kiss. but don't make it big or anything. That might be her first kiss and she wont know how that well.
  • If she is a bad kisser, don't let her know. Don't get mad or show any disappointment even if you have some, realize that might have been her first try.
  • Let her pig out. If she's hungry, buy her food.
  • If she accidentally passes gas, burps, etc. Just kinda laugh and say it's alright and give her a hug.
  • Tell her your parents like her. It's always nice to know the parents like the other.
  • Always make sure she's happy. If something seems wrong, hug her, hold her close, and don't let her go until she tells you. Not in the mean kind of way, though.
  • Let her know she's right when she is.
  • Try looking at other wikihow about guys and see what women like in men.

 

Warnings

  • Don't be afraid to kiss her under any circumstances
  • But be very careful of parents and siblings like older brothers or overly protective fathers or mothers.
  • Don't lie, EVER
  • Don't be annoying
  • NEVER EVER act like a stalker
  • Never act like you're whipped, she might take advantage of that fact
  • Never have bad breath, always keep mints or gum with you and brush your teeth two times a day.
  • Don't look at her funny if her face is breaking out. Tell her that it doesn't matter, and you love her beyond physical appearance.
  • Be Confident. Girls find confidence attractive
  • Some girls aren't ready for relationships and may say they are. So if you are doing these steps and they do not appreciate it or are not emotionally close to you, talk to them!
  • And seriously guys, be yourself. Girls hate liars, and especially cheaters.
  • Some girls don't go for all of these tips. Get to know your girl before you start following as many of these rules as possible. Sometimes it's just obnoxious.
  • DON'T say you love her before you've been together for more than a month and a half or so, even if it's true and you think she loves you. If she says it first, go ahead, though.
  • NEVER EVER drown her while kissing. If you must use tongue, use the tip ONLY! Any more and it just gets gross.
10月26日

Deadly sins

是更在意自己的感受,还是在意别人的看法
 
已经无法区别
 
向别人收集来的缺点,其实多少心中有数
 
明知故犯,也是懦弱和懒惰的体现
 
打烂自己吧
 
重回原点
我想我是一个极其不善长表达自己感情的人吧~
 
 
 
10月22日

无题

就像heroes中的sylar一样,
困惑着自己的应该就是对未知想了解的欲望
但同样也是人类进步的源泉。
 
蝴蝶效应里,人们越是想挽救,就往往会造成更大的损害
在某种程度上,这种欲望也一样吧
 
从哲学上讲“获取知识,就是苦难的开始”
可惜,人就是那么贱......
 
 
 
9月19日

Some Dreams — Allan Taylor

Some dreams are big, some dreams are small
Some dreams are carried away on the wind and never dreamed at all
Some dreams tell lies, some dreams come true
I've got a whole lot of dreams and I can dream for you

If not for me, if not for you
I'd be dreaming all day I wouldn't know what to do
I'd hang around, I'd lose my way
I'd put off what I couldn't do for another day

Some dreams are big, some dreams are small
Some dreams are carried away on the wind and never dreamed at all
Some dreams tell lies, some dreams come true
I've got a whole lot of dreams and I can dream for you

I've spent my life hung up on dreams
I float along like a summer cloud or so it seems
I get it wrong most things I do
But I can write a song and this one's for you

Some dreams are big, some dreams are small
Some dreams are carried away on the wind and never dreamed at all
Some dreams tell lies, some dreams come true
I've got a whole lot of dreams and I can dream for you

Some call it fate, some call it chance
Some call waiting around for someone to ask you to dance
If I had my way, if I could call the tune
You wouldn't have to wait 'cause I would dance you around the moon

Some dreams are big, some dreams are small
Some dreams are carried away on the wind and never dreamed at all
Some dreams tell lies, some dreams come true
I've got a whole lot of dreams and I can dream for you
I've got a whole lot of dreams and I can dream for you
9月18日

陌生的校园

走在路上,伟长湖畔,图书馆内
 
再也找不到熟悉的影子
 
仅剩的半个班,
估计大多数人还能见几次都数的出来
 
秋天要到了
 
果真是伤感的季节。
 
9月14日

中秋,miss you 远方的亲人

P.S. I Love You

by Nellie Mckay

Dear, I thought I'd drop a line.
The weather's cool. The
folks are fine.
I'm in bed each night at nine.
P.S. I love you.

亲爱的,想起来要给你写封信。
这里天气渐凉,家人平安无恙。
每晚我都九点乖乖上床。
还有,我爱你。


Yesterday we had some rain,
but all in all I can't complain.
Was it dusty on the train?
P.S. I love you.

昨天下了场雨,
归根结底也没什么不好的地方。
火车上是不是灰土茫茫?
还有,我爱你。


Write to the Browns just as soon as you're able.
They came around to call.
I burned a hole in the dining room table.
And let me see, I guess that's all.

尽早给布朗家写信哟,
他们最近有登门拜访。
餐桌被我不小心烧了个洞,
我再想想,也没出别的状况。


Nothin' else for me to say,
and so I'll close. Oh, by the way,
everybody's thinkin' of you.
P.S. I love you.

其它也没啥能说,
就此搁笔了,哦,顺便一句,
大家都很想你,
还有,我爱你。

8月21日

道歉还是必需的

举国体制
 
 
 
 
8月4日

...

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
心欲静
 
 
而风不止
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
7月25日

...

曾经心无碍,情如海,因爱让彼此存在
如今风不来,花不开,剩一片相思成灾
7月22日

好人

就算不怎么说话,但都知道对方是好人
 
因为
 
花钱受罪的地方没有坏人...
7月19日

师道

先是“范跑跑”,后是“杨不管”
 
终于,舆论将指向定在了缺乏重教的社会土壤
 
尊师重教
 
有本事,有能力的老师自然会获得大家的认可和尊重
 
可惜目前社会中有那么多 “啊咋哩” 老师
 
一张教师证就必须得到台下那么多人的膜拜?
 
也是今年,发生过某大学教授当场发飙并威胁恐吓学生
 
到底是教师不尊重学生为先?还是学生不尊重教师为先呢?
 
记得,初中时
 
我的语文老师,
 
当众侮辱嘲讽反应慢的同学
 
将成绩差的同学的头撞破黑板......
 
结果还要学生道歉
 
还有高中的某个物理老师,
 
还是狗屁教研组长,每隔几分钟就吐口痰,超级恶心
 
都是些什么素质嘛
 
算了,说到底老师也不过是个高级民工
 
什么灵魂建筑师,很多老师扪心自问,你们配吗?
 
 
7月13日

一个大大的圈,从石油到石油

石油涨价了,在没有合适替代品的前提下,涨价貌似是无止境了
 
究竟能涨多高呢?估计只有神知道了
 
93号汽油也水涨船高,渐渐的,人们发现自己被自己的爱车套牢了...
 
有着房车一步到位的郊区购房团们失望了,调转枪头杀回市区
 
回冷的市区房子需求市场如同打了一支强心剂,复活了
 
地就那么大,人却会越来越多。五湖四海的有志之士都会聚集上海
 
但是无德无能的老上海人、第二代上海人、第三代上海人又有多少会去外地扎根?
 
人一多,什么恶劣的事情都会发生了
 
加之急功近利的社会,民生系统远远跟不上不断上涨的人口
 
将来,大病不上医院,因为看不起;小病不上医院,药店拿药就行
 
现代化的副产品之一就有新型的传染疾病
 
其实从人类的历史宏观来看,这只不过是大自然的定期磁盘修复扫描
 
高强度、高竞争生活下的都市白领们又有多少不是“三姓家奴”呢(卡奴、车奴、房奴)
 
人们对外星高智慧生物的描述总是头大身子小,现在想想并无道理
 
人们是越来越聪明,对于智力的投资,势必会忽略或者弱化其他方面,代价是必然
 
当代价和大自然的定期修复重合时.....
 
或许,干惯体力活的民工能得到些欣慰,四肢发达头脑简单不见得都是坏事
 
......
 
就像穆法莎对辛巴说的那样“我们死了,化作养料,滋润大地,生长草木,喂食牛羊”
但可能它不知道,其实这也是石油的来源之一
 
 
 
 
万事万物皆有平衡
可惜,平衡早被打破了
 
 
 
看完BBC的纪录片《Earth》后,结合最近实况,有感。
 
人不能胜天,但愿人和天能和睦相处
 
套用流行的一词 “和谐地球”
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
7月10日

762

熟悉的车站
 
熟悉的15~20分钟的等车时间
 
熟悉的道路
 
熟悉的校园
 
沿着新中的外墙驶往汶水路
 
对面是原平路
 
想起一些朋友
 
和高超在762上被其他人说:哪能男生也咖发痴饿
 
也回想起时常留意的那个气质很特别的女同学
 
762
 
物是人非事事休......
6月25日

毕业了?

没呢......
 
现在还剩   电子商务
 
两篇论文
 
两份实习报告
 
......
 
 
6月20日

我的欧洲杯剧本

德国坦克碾碎葡萄牙琉璃
 
克罗地亚,黑马践踏星月军团
 
少数派报告,1个荷兰人战胜1群荷兰人
 
悲情斗牛士,复辟的世界冠军
 
复仇!日耳曼人杀回来了
 
半决赛的孽缘,荷兰人希丁克
 
可悲的千年老二,低调的世界之王
 
 
6月17日

shining friends

shining friends

A little faith Brightens a rainy day
小小的信念 照亮那下雨天
Life is difficult you can't go away
生命难困苦、你总不能逃避
Don't hide yourselve in the corner
不要于躲角落
You have my place to stay
我的胸怀可让你倚靠
Sorrow is gonna say goodbye
忧伤终会跟你说再见
Opens up You'll see the happy sunshine
张开眼睛 你会看见快乐的阳光
Keep going on with your dream
继续追寻梦想
Chasing tomorrow's sunrise
向着明天的太阳追赶
The spirit can never die
不会逝去的、是信念与理想
Sun will shine, my friend
好朋友、太阳会闪耀
Won't let you cry, my dear
谁都不会令你流泪
Seeing you shed a tear Make my world disappear
你的一滴眼泪 都会让我的世界灰暗
You'll never be alone in darkness
在黑暗中、你永不会孤独
See my smile, my friend
好朋友、看我的笑颜
We are with you, holding hands
手牵手、我们和你一起走
you have got to believe, you are my destiny
在我宁静的心灵、你是我的信念与目标
We're meant to be your friends
我们永远都会在一起
That's what a friendship be
因为我们是朋友

6月13日

不可思议的一天

一清早,大热门创造大冷门。德国队被克罗地亚人给干掉了...
话说这克罗地亚也在预选赛中双杀英格兰,致使英格兰人无缘本届欧锦赛。人家多少有点本事的...
只能说是:意料之外,情理之中。
只为巴萨错过了摩德里奇而感到遗憾...
 
接着,刘翔的110米栏的世界纪录被破了。
靠,上回的纪录保持了13年。越靠近极限的,应该越难破才对。谁知才2年,就over了...
该为刘翔庆幸还是悲哀呢?
毕竟绚烂的时代,的确需要一个可以匹配的对手。
但千万别成为另一个传奇的指路人。(毕竟刘翔打破世界纪录那次,那位古巴小将也在赛道上)
祷告,千万别成为古巴人回忆录上前半段的过客啊~
 
再接着,就是NBA有史以来最大的逆转获胜
湖人第一节领先21分。我个人认为这场比赛没戏了...
湖人第二节最多领先了24分。相信世界上绝大多数人认为凯尔特人这场没戏了
湖人第三节上半段还纠缠在18分左右的优势。相信连凯尔特人的球迷都关掉电视机了
第三节还有6分钟左右,
对手是科比布莱恩特,是全联盟的MVP,得分像探囊取物的怪物
场地是湖人至今季后赛没有输过一场的主场
对方教练是拥有9个总冠军戒指的菲尔杰克逊
.......
不可思议的事情发生了
凯尔特人居然30分逆转了!!!看得那个激动啊~从来没有这种激动过,作为中立球迷。
 
突然想起安西教练和三井的对话“不到最后一刻,结局难料”
 
除此之外,对我个人来讲也发生了件不可思议的怪事。
我家一块极厚重的玻璃碎掉了
压下来,将一个茶壶、一个碗、一个杯子、一个瓶子、一个罐子、一个热水壶同时陪葬了...
家里到处都是碎玻璃,害我汗流满面的打扫了一段时间......
幸好人没有伤亡...
 
 
6月11日

梦,真的灵验了

最近心情一直不是很好
 
因为考试成绩就要出来了
 
这最后的考试,一旦晚节不保,后果不堪设想
 
又恰巧有这么一门课,鬼使神差的在死亡边缘徘徊
 
终于在公布成绩的前一个晚上,也就是昨晚
 
我做了个梦,有2个醒来后还记得的内容
 
1、西班牙大胜
2、我那门课61分通过
 
结果,倒吸一口气的查分数
 
居然,真的是61分~TNND,太准了吧~
 
 
6月8日

Time

Beauty,wit,high birth,vigour of bone,desert in service,love,friendship,charity,are subjects all to envious and calumniating time.
 
------------《Troilus and Cressida》
                    by Shakespeare
 
时间是世界上最不公平的产物
 
上天赐予人们各自不同的时间
 
或许70年,或许80年,甚至更久
 
但也可能是5年,1年,乃至1秒...
 
但时间又是世界上最公平的产物
 
万物的一切变化,都源于这第四维度
 
因果报应,福祸相依。
 
无一不是时间对于个人的一种respond
 
没人能欺骗、没人能逃避
 
没人能控制,没人能改变
 
价值,基于对时间的利用
 
 
 
6月7日

True love never alters and it lasts long

昨晚见朋友在空间抒发一种情绪,但不让留言
 
心里痒痒,于是想起莎士比亚的这首14行诗
 
今早,借莎翁之文献给今天请吃饭的老姐新婚1月零几天快乐和周围所有的朋友寻找到真爱
 
Sonnet116
 
True love never alters and it lasts long
 
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
 
Admit impediments; love is not love
 
Which alters when it alteration finds,
 
Or bends with the remover to remove.
 
O, no it is an ever-fixed mark
 
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
 
It is the star to every wand'ring bark,
 
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
 
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
 
Within his bending sickle's compass come,
 
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
 
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
 
If this be error and upon me proved,
 
I never writ, nor no man ever loved. 
 
真心相爱,两情长久
我坚信,两颗真心的真诚相爱
绝不应该存在任何形式的阻碍。
一个人倘若见风使舵人变亦变,
那样的爱就不是真心诚意的爱。
啊,不!爱是永恒立定的灯塔,
海上风暴过去,它却肃立岿然;
爱是北极星,指引迷航的船帆,
它高度可以丈量,但价值无限。
爱不是时间的玩偶,美目红颜
纵然难逃过死神无情的大镰刀,
但时光瞬间万变无法把爱改变,
它将容颜依旧直到生命的终点。
如果有人证明我这话大错特错,
那么就算我没说,没人真爱过。
 
      摘自莎士比亚《十四行诗》第16首